Wednesday, May 5, 2010

How To Achieve Good Success By Increasing Your Confidence.

How To Achieve Good Success By Increasing Your Confidence.
I am going to share with you a little secret about increasing your success and how your thoughts create energy - which either attracts success or attracts failure. Most people are not aware that their thoughts are energy, and very few are aware of the fact that their thoughts can actually create the failure they have in life when the really want success.Whether you send out energy that attracts success or failure really depends on the kind of thoughts you ponder upon. Those who focus their attention on the good qualities that they have and take time to take pleasure in their achievements, no matter how small they are - will inevitably attract success to themselves. With that kind of mind set they will continuously send out a positive success energy that in turn will attract more and more success.

One fact is clear - in life we will fail more often than we succeed. But those who continue to enjoy success - never give up and they always focus on their success - no matter how small that success is - they focus on it. And in so doing they don't look at the failures - thus creating a positive energy for them.

Unfortunately most people tend to focus their thoughts on what they did wrong, what they failed at, why things didn't work out, why they're not good enough, -- they simply focus on their shortfalls and negative qualities. In the end, without really knowing it, they send out a negative energy that only attracts more negative situations and failures. If you feel that things aren't going well in a particular area of your life - then take a look at the thoughts that you have regularly about that particular area. There are chances that you may be having a series of negative thoughts and things just keep getting worse. For example: if you want to feel more comfortable when speaking to people or have more confidence when dealing with business associates or at work - do you sometimes look at all the things that could go wrong? Do you look at your shortfalls when thinking about those situations? If you do then you only create negative success energy. Now it's time to turn the tide and I'll show you how - so keep reading.

If you're one of the people whose always doing what I just described above - don't get dejected - you can still turn things around. Yes, things can get better. But in order for that to happen you have to change your energy and that means changing your thoughts. Now I'm not talking about saying a number of affirmations - sure that will help - its one step and a positive step. But you can also start by focusing on the good things that you have in life. Focus on your accomplishments; focus on the success that you have, focused on your positive qualities.
You may say: I haven't had any great achievements and have nothing to focus on!" Well, quite frankly that's a pile of nonsense. You're just looking in the wrong area.When I refer to success and accomplishments I'm referring to some of the things that you consider small achievements. If you're a good parent - that's an achievement. If you're a leader of a group or help out with a charity - that's an accomplishment. If you graduated college or even high school - that's an accomplishment. If you're good at talking to people - that's a positive quality. If you have a good sense of humor - that's a positive quality. If you're a caring person - that's a positive quality.

So take a few moments out of your day at some point this week and list all your positive qualities and achievements/accomplishments. When you're done - take a few minutes to absorb those positive qualities and accomplishments. Focus on how good you feel about them - what you immediately start doing is sending out a positive success energy. But what you also do is you get your mind to focus on the good things in life and this in turn sends a positive message about your own self worth to your subconscious. In the end you'll create that positive success energy, and you'll also improve your own self-esteem and self-confidence.In all you do and in your thoughts don’t forget the fact that God has a specific plan and goal for you and me. It's up to us to seek God to discover what that plan and goal is. And then it's up to us, with God's help, to "take action and go get it!" I wish you good success in your entire Endeavour in life.

Remain Blessed.

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